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		<title>By: puerhan 卜尔瀚</title>
		<link>http://www.susanpiver.com/wordpress/2008/06/17/what-it-feels-like-to-love-on-my-planet/#comment-2662</link>
		<dc:creator>puerhan 卜尔瀚</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Jul 2009 14:44:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_comment&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_twitter_username&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_content&quot;&gt;Great article, thanks for sharing it RT: @Veggieinlove: Another great article by @spiver: Stupefaction http://bit.ly/qKmku&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">Great article, thanks for sharing it RT: @Veggieinlove: Another great article by @spiver: Stupefaction <a href="http://bit.ly/qKmku" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/qKmku</a></span></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: tearful dishwasher</title>
		<link>http://www.susanpiver.com/wordpress/2008/06/17/what-it-feels-like-to-love-on-my-planet/#comment-988</link>
		<dc:creator>tearful dishwasher</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 04:46:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Susan-

I stumbled here from another blog and I just wanted to say how much I enjoyed reading this piece. And thinking about it. And experiencing this feeling that I had stumbled upon something real.

The honesty in your writing shines like a lighthouse on the shore of a dark and violent sea. It&#039;s kind of a big deal to witness.

One of the things that I find a great solace in is the idea that we are all of us simply trying to move from ignorance and striving, fear and grasping and avoiding, towards something that feels more spacious.
A place of compassion and &#039;resting simply without altering it.&#039;

It seems you are on a good, strong path and are fully engaged in it.


That seems an essential endeavor.


Anyhoo. Enjoyed this very much. My guess is I&#039;ll be back again soon.


yrs-

tearful</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Susan-</p>
<p>I stumbled here from another blog and I just wanted to say how much I enjoyed reading this piece. And thinking about it. And experiencing this feeling that I had stumbled upon something real.</p>
<p>The honesty in your writing shines like a lighthouse on the shore of a dark and violent sea. It&#8217;s kind of a big deal to witness.</p>
<p>One of the things that I find a great solace in is the idea that we are all of us simply trying to move from ignorance and striving, fear and grasping and avoiding, towards something that feels more spacious.<br />
A place of compassion and &#8216;resting simply without altering it.&#8217;</p>
<p>It seems you are on a good, strong path and are fully engaged in it.</p>
<p>That seems an essential endeavor.</p>
<p>Anyhoo. Enjoyed this very much. My guess is I&#8217;ll be back again soon.</p>
<p>yrs-</p>
<p>tearful</p>
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		<title>By: clarity99</title>
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		<dc:creator>clarity99</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jun 2008 13:52:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_comment&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_twitter_username&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_content&quot;&gt;beautiful!!! http://snurl.com/2jtul - from @spiver&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">beautiful!!! <a href="http://snurl.com/2jtul" rel="nofollow">http://snurl.com/2jtul</a> &#8211; from @spiver</span></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: susan</title>
		<link>http://www.susanpiver.com/wordpress/2008/06/17/what-it-feels-like-to-love-on-my-planet/#comment-874</link>
		<dc:creator>susan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 17:46:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Rene. It&#039;s interesting to consider the possibility that never being known may be the only possibility. When I entertain this thought two things come up: 

First, it&#039;s sort of a relief. Maybe I could stop trying so hard to be understood and instead try to understand--myself, another, and what occurs between us.

Second, I can relax with my aloneness and feel some tenderness toward others who also struggle with their aloneness.

How does that possibility strike you? I guess I find it expansive, to my surprise.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Rene. It&#8217;s interesting to consider the possibility that never being known may be the only possibility. When I entertain this thought two things come up: </p>
<p>First, it&#8217;s sort of a relief. Maybe I could stop trying so hard to be understood and instead try to understand&#8211;myself, another, and what occurs between us.</p>
<p>Second, I can relax with my aloneness and feel some tenderness toward others who also struggle with their aloneness.</p>
<p>How does that possibility strike you? I guess I find it expansive, to my surprise.</p>
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		<title>By: Rene' Guerrero</title>
		<link>http://www.susanpiver.com/wordpress/2008/06/17/what-it-feels-like-to-love-on-my-planet/#comment-873</link>
		<dc:creator>Rene' Guerrero</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 17:05:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I couldn&#039;t bear the thought of being so closely tied to someone who at the core of my being didn&#039;t understand me. I suppose that&#039; why I&#039;m 42 and single. I don&#039;t have the fear of commitment, I have the fear of one morning waking up next to a stranger. I know that&#039;s lightyears from what you were describing, but it invoked a sense of longing I have that is tied to the fear of not being alone but being with someone and being more alone than I ever was by myself...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I couldn&#8217;t bear the thought of being so closely tied to someone who at the core of my being didn&#8217;t understand me. I suppose that&#8217; why I&#8217;m 42 and single. I don&#8217;t have the fear of commitment, I have the fear of one morning waking up next to a stranger. I know that&#8217;s lightyears from what you were describing, but it invoked a sense of longing I have that is tied to the fear of not being alone but being with someone and being more alone than I ever was by myself&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: dharmacore</title>
		<link>http://www.susanpiver.com/wordpress/2008/06/17/what-it-feels-like-to-love-on-my-planet/#comment-2664</link>
		<dc:creator>dharmacore</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 16:47:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_comment&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_twitter_username&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_content&quot;&gt;Great post from @spiver on relationships: http://tinyurl.com/53s2pd&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">Great post from @spiver on relationships: <a href="http://tinyurl.com/53s2pd" rel="nofollow">http://tinyurl.com/53s2pd</a></span></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Susan Piver</title>
		<link>http://www.susanpiver.com/wordpress/2008/06/17/what-it-feels-like-to-love-on-my-planet/#comment-2665</link>
		<dc:creator>Susan Piver</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 14:24:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_comment&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_twitter_username&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_content&quot;&gt;New blog post on love &amp; loneliness. http://snurl.com/2jtul&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">New blog post on love &#038; loneliness. <a href="http://snurl.com/2jtul" rel="nofollow">http://snurl.com/2jtul</a></span></span></span></p>
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